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pretty anxious and scared

Hey everyone im 23/m uncircumsized with pearly penile papules.  This past saturday I went to a bachelors party with the intention of doing nothing with any stripper thats just not me.  I've had only 1 sex partner and that was in a comitted relationship.  I end up getting really wasted and before I know it my buddy tells me to go into the females bathroom for a oral sex.  In my straight mind I would never think of doing this but before I know it im getting unprotected oral sex for a couple minutes and then protected sex for a couple minutes then back to unprotected oral sex where I was finished off by a handjob.  The night was a blurr but I know I had a condom on for vaginal sex.  The lady was on the older side and im assuming she is a high risk person for sti/std due to the nature of the job.   My main question is should I be looking for any symptoms and am I at a greater risk for hiv due to being uncircumsized and having pearly penile papules.   These forums have been great but I still need some more assurance.   Thanks for all your responses
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Stars making me look like a sex offender.....dammit, I can't win.
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hahaha.  Sheesh, try using the ! for the i.  This place is upside freakin down anyways.
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Yes. I bought a home test kit to ***** every girl I ever sleep with again. I'm just planning on doing it while she sleeps (that way I can get PEP for condom related sex).
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those stars were hiding the word P.R.I.C.K.!!!!!! HOW IS THAT A BAD WORD? Arggh. It was used in the verb sense. Grrr.
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I hope not for both of our sakes.
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Damit Jag you know you don't have it.  You are in way too good of a mood to be worrying about it.  Let's go get wild like hockey did (just kidding, I will never touch another skanky ho).
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Hell Yeah! Now that's what Im talkin about.  Dude, you partied your arse off.  Whoo! Got drunk, laid, and smart enough to throw on the raincoat.  You are my freakin hero.  Next time you go partying can I come?  Get Wild you crazy animal.  YOU DON'T GET HIV LIKE THIS.  
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They will say here that unprotected oral carries little to zero risk any way you cut the cake. I've always said that a blow job's a ho's job - a hand job's a man's job, but there's no risk there as well. If the vaginal was protected, you're straight there as well. Basically, you're risk is minute (some say negligible). I wouldn't sweat it too much (although undoubtedly you will, just like everyone else here with a similar story). You can test at 6 weeks (expect negative) and then a 12 week conclusive test that should not change. I'd say you're fine with an exceedingly small risk. Others may tell you zero risk and you don't need to test. You will test, of course (says my crystal ball). Anyways, if you have what you think are strange / coincidental 'symptoms,' they won't mean jack here. Only tests matter.


Also, I have NO idea what pearly penile papules are, nor do I want to know. I doubt they have any effect on this (unless they are, in fact, bleeding sores).
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