oral sex with gay hiv positive 50 days back

[rajubangalore]

i met an gay 50 days back and we did oral sex means sucking and kissing deeply then After 2 days i have noticed red dots on my toungue ,  went for eclia and result is negative,then after that i have given hsv 1 and 2 aslo and showing negative,then after i came to know my partner is  hiv positive so am worried and again i went for eclia on day
45 after exposure And again results are negative,but still am having those red dots and white plated toungue so please guide me about my hiv status

thanks

[Teak]

Reread all the replies you have been given.

[rajubangalore]

hi to all

am really thankfull for all u guys and am feeling gud now and i hav read somany threads in this site its really wonderfull site

just update me few things
mine around 75 days over and my doctor told to me retest on 6months period

and my last test was on 60 days period and negative,and i dont have any symptoms and am feeling casual
so when u want me retest again?
and in symptomatic hiv when the symptoms will start?
70days and no symptoms means?

may be i may not asked in sequence right
thankyou.

[Teak]

See your doctor if you have a concern. Your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.

[rajubangalore]

and guys just to day i found that there are so many bumps in my throat on toungue in the edge,actually i am feeling uneasy ness in neck to day so i just kept my finger in my throat but surprisingly so many bumps are there,but i have noticed few bumps on toungue before this encounter and those are visible,but i never seen inside

so again am started worryning

[rajubangalore]

thanks for your replay dude and i hope i wont get infect wid hiv

[Teak]

See your doctor if you have a concern. Your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.

[rajubangalore]

thanks for your replay

and to day i have given eclia test and to day is around 53rd day and the result is negative and i will wait for 3 months to check again

and you all are using elisa name but my lab ppl are mentioning eclia,so is it same?
they told me that this is an antibody test only,so what is window period for eclia?

what i have to do for red and white dots on my toungue?after using zovirox and all other medicines it has come down 20%,but i dont know that this has become because of medicines or not,so please guide me what to do for these symptoms?

[nursegirl6572]

No, HIV can not be transmitted through small cold  sores, cuts, abrasions, lacerations, etc.

As for the ELISA results, you need not concern yourself with the numeric values, they are irrelevant for your purposes.  Each time you take a test, these nu,bers would vary.  All that matters is that the result was negative.

There isn't really anything more we can tell you, time to put this behind you and move on.

[rajubangalore]

hello sir really am thankful to your answer

and my doubt is that red dots on toungue from the day 2,i hav taken medicien b complex,zinetac,cobadex and fluconozole and zovirox and these all are my doctor advised and i have applied candid and zytee for oral but still not yet cured.

and my eclia test on 45day showing negative and by tomorrow it is around 53 day so i am just planning to go for test once and i will come back to here for your advice

i am really worried about my situation and after redind all your opinions i can feel free

and one more thing i just wanted to ask is before sex with that guy only i have noticed red bumps on the toungue i.e near to throat around 5-6 but no bleeding and looks red colour and still looking same,so i have read that hiv will not transmit through oral sex i.e sucking and kissing unless the person is not having any ulcers and wounds,so these bumps allows to transmit the hiv?

what about red dots and white things are on my toungue? my hsv is showing 0.8 and cutt off is 1.0 so herpus is in advance stage?

and my first eclia for hiv antibody showed 0.3 and afetr 45 days its showing 0.2,so my question is why the changes in results? wt it means?

i hope u guys understand my situation

[nursegirl6572]

First, you didn't have a risk and don't even need testing. If you feel you need to be tested to move on, then per testing guidelines, a negative test result is conclusive at 3 months post exposure.  Being that you were never at risk, your results will be negative.

Second, while I don't condone your partner not being upfront about his status, he didn't do anything to put you at risk.  Still, he should allow any new partners to decide what risks they are comfortable taking.

Lastly...unless you were sexually assaulted, you have to take responsibility for your actions.  To say that he is intemtionally spreading the disease is ridiculous.

HIV is spread via:
Unprotected vaginal or anal sex
Sharing IV drug works
From mother to infant

There are a million threads both here and on our expert forum, plus health pages and user journals that explain WHY your encounter was NOT a risk.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk and no, symptoms don't show from day one.

[rajubangalore]

my questions-

hiv startys showing symptoms from day 1?

[rajubangalore]

and that person and asked for test eclia,then i came to know that he knows already about his status and intenytionally spreading the hiv

i dont know about me and ma family but am promising u guys if i test positive for hiv i wont spread to any one and even as soon as i will try to stop that bloody person.

[rajubangalore]

and few words about me

i used to do protected sex every time,but i dont know whatt happened that day that person intentionally forced me to suck and he given lip kiss strong and after 20 minuted i found that my lips are swollen and became normal in few hours but nex day i found these red dots

and before this encounter i got mild cold and cough so without prescription i have taken augmentin for 3-4 days. so red dots are because of this?

so 45 days eclia results are reliable or guide me what to do