You had no exposure as you have been told. Your wife needs to see her doctor for her problems. They are not an HIV concern.
Dear AnxiousinAK,
Firstly thank you very much for your answer.
My major concern now is that my wife showed this mouth sore out of the blue... so I started to panic. She had that before only once. The bright side is that she has no other HIV symptoms (e.g. no fever). I also feel fine except the agony of course...
She first complained 11 days after we had unprotected sex after the hooker episode, so it fits to the "around 2 weeks" time the virus need to start to spread. This is my main concern.
Thank you very much again.
Dear AnxiousinAK,
As you correctly stated I do feel very guilty indeed. It was a very wrong attitude that I won't forgive myself...
As you also correctly mentioned nothing wrong happened with the (latex) condom. I am mostly concerned that my WIFE showed this mouth sore out of the blue... (exactly 11 days after our unprotected first sexual contact after the call girl) She is also stressed because of other things, so I hope it is because of that.
I hope this was a unlucky coincidence...
Thank you for your answer.
You had NO risk of HIV from this encounter. As you stated both oral and vaginal sex was protected with (I assume) a latex condom. You did not mention that the condom slipped off or broke. Therefore, you encountered NO possible transmission of HIV.
Further, CSW use condoms to protect THEMSELVES, not YOU. Further, due to the rigorous testing protocol these individuals submit themselves the chances that your partner was HIV+ is are so unlikely to be nearly non-existent.
Your lack of appetite and nausea are classic symptoms of anxiety. Probably brought on by your extreme guilt over your actions. If you cannot deal with the emotional consequences brought on by not being faithful to your wife, perhaps you should re-think your actions.
You did not suffer a risk from HIV. If your symptoms (NOT related to HIV) are bothersome, schedule an appointment with your physician for diagnosis.