Reading some of the information n here, it seems to be saying that you could have unprotected intercourse with aperson with hiv. aAnd not get it? Is that tru? I was just wondering. I have been in a monogomouns relationshjip for 9 months. I have had hiv test 3-4 months ago so I felt it was safe. Now, I have a strong suspicion that my ex cheated on me. Worried like crazy that he could have exposed me to something!