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please help
had protected sex with 2 csw last march.
Condom protected.
With girl #2 I know the condom didnt failed.
With girl #1 dont know. Here is the thing: i put on a comdom, sat on the toilet and she was on top of me. I was almost not erected at all. We started doing it (well, trying to).. After a minute or so, i heard a little pop sound. I said STOP! What was that?.. And without pulling my penis completely from her (but almost) i checked with my hand and it felt still ok. So we went on like for an additinal minute or so until i decided (without climax) to stop because i was so no erected that i couldnt continue. I didnt even know if i was actully inside ofher or not at that point. Once she stood up, i saw a complete condom, covering my penis completely from head to root. Removed very carefully and took a good look at it, everything looked fine.. So no worrries at that moment.
But now Im worried that the poppy sound I heard was actually a little condom failure that i didnt notice, not even when removing it.
Between Weeks 10 and 12 after the episode I had a mild weird head ache (lasting 4 days aprox) then went away.
At that point 10-12 weeks, also started to have a feeling (till today and becoming almost constant) of having my neck a little sore ... (not my throat, I mean it has nothing to do with the kind of sore throat you get when having for example the mono).. just my neck... kind of stiff neck.. and a mild felling of having something stucked in my esofagus (not in my throat, as the feeling is exactly were the neck meets the chest, like where the tyroid gland is, like a mini-goiter) .. but giving me no major problems in terms of swalowing foods and drinks... Ive read that anxiety could affect your neck that way.... cant find or feel any significant swollen lymph node or lump or bump or whatever...
Additionally I have kind of weird feelling in my chest muscles near my armpits (not in armpits itsefl, but in the schest muscles near to them)... kind of feel some kind of soreness there as well.... again I cant find any significant lump or bump or swollen lymph or whatever...
Never had fever or any other concerning symptom.
But this feeling has become a major discomfort (not pain, just discomfort) .. i my head starts to play with me again...
please your help.
having all this happening from week 10-12... and until now.. week 16-17.. makes no sense right?
are this weird feeling in neck and chest somehow worrysome or suggestive of hiv?
do they sound like swollen nodes? i cant feel any lump or bump. If you have swollen lymphs, are you supposed to feel lumps or bumps?
what should I do?
please your comments
Condom protected.
With girl #2 I know the condom didnt failed.
With girl #1 dont know. Here is the thing: i put on a comdom, sat on the toilet and she was on top of me. I was almost not erected at all. We started doing it (well, trying to).. After a minute or so, i heard a little pop sound. I said STOP! What was that?.. And without pulling my penis completely from her (but almost) i checked with my hand and it felt still ok. So we went on like for an additinal minute or so until i decided (without climax) to stop because i was so no erected that i couldnt continue. I didnt even know if i was actully inside ofher or not at that point. Once she stood up, i saw a complete condom, covering my penis completely from head to root. Removed very carefully and took a good look at it, everything looked fine.. So no worrries at that moment.
But now Im worried that the poppy sound I heard was actually a little condom failure that i didnt notice, not even when removing it.
Between Weeks 10 and 12 after the episode I had a mild weird head ache (lasting 4 days aprox) then went away.
At that point 10-12 weeks, also started to have a feeling (till today and becoming almost constant) of having my neck a little sore ... (not my throat, I mean it has nothing to do with the kind of sore throat you get when having for example the mono).. just my neck... kind of stiff neck.. and a mild felling of having something stucked in my esofagus (not in my throat, as the feeling is exactly were the neck meets the chest, like where the tyroid gland is, like a mini-goiter) .. but giving me no major problems in terms of swalowing foods and drinks... Ive read that anxiety could affect your neck that way.... cant find or feel any significant swollen lymph node or lump or bump or whatever...
Additionally I have kind of weird feelling in my chest muscles near my armpits (not in armpits itsefl, but in the schest muscles near to them)... kind of feel some kind of soreness there as well.... again I cant find any significant lump or bump or swollen lymph or whatever...
Never had fever or any other concerning symptom.
But this feeling has become a major discomfort (not pain, just discomfort) .. i my head starts to play with me again...
please your help.
having all this happening from week 10-12... and until now.. week 16-17.. makes no sense right?
are this weird feeling in neck and chest somehow worrysome or suggestive of hiv?
do they sound like swollen nodes? i cant feel any lump or bump. If you have swollen lymphs, are you supposed to feel lumps or bumps?
what should I do?
please your comments
Dont start to convince yourself that something went wrong. As long as your condom did not break. (witch you would of known 100% had it broke) You had no HIV risk. Move on with your life and always be safe use condoms.
just for education teak...
when would you usually get swollen glands after infection?
if so, when would they be gone? or can they stay swollen for months?
stiff neck means swollen nodes?
when would you usually get swollen glands after infection?
if so, when would they be gone? or can they stay swollen for months?
stiff neck means swollen nodes?
You don't fill condoms with water and no you do not need to test. When condoms fail, they fail catastrophically.
what about the poppy sound? suspicious right?
penis had shrinked when i removed the first condom, and no ejaculation so i didnt had the "semen-in-its-place reference".
I saw an intact condom covering my penis after sex but .. really dont know...
didnt filled with water at the end...
should i test?
what about my symptoms? do they sound like swollen nodes. if you have swollen nodes, would you be able to fell them when touching? would they be painful?
please help
penis had shrinked when i removed the first condom, and no ejaculation so i didnt had the "semen-in-its-place reference".
I saw an intact condom covering my penis after sex but .. really dont know...
didnt filled with water at the end...
should i test?
what about my symptoms? do they sound like swollen nodes. if you have swollen nodes, would you be able to fell them when touching? would they be painful?
please help
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