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sorry for asking again, am really confused

sorry for asking again, am really confused

So now here is the situation when I was having sex with girlfriend who is hiv positive, she was laying on her tummy, meaning I was on top of her from the back. during the intercourse my pennis got out and when I was trying to put it back in thats when the condom broke , because she told me 100% that did not feel it break from the inside as she was the first to know it broke and she told me if in anyway my pennis had gone in after the break she would feel it, lets say my pennis head had touched or entered her vagina entrance after the break and also if the condom had vaginal fluids on it when it broke, but given the situation do you think I was at risk ?
Because right now it has been 2 weeks and I have developed a sore throat ,muslce and joint pains and also painful and a bit swollen lymph nodes.
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Look mate, regardless of what responses you have/have not had etc... it doesn't change the facts and the facts are these:

NO RISK

SEE A COUNSELLOR

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Go back and reread the replies you have been given and move on.
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Look, right now you are being driven for a place of anxiety and fear and not from actual facts.  

The situation you have presented to the forum is not a risk and I believe that numerous people (myself included) have been over and over this with you.

I understand that you are anxious and this is something that you need to resolve between you and your girlfriend.  if she is HIV positive and you choose to engage sexually with her then you need to feel confident in your knowledge of how HIV is and is not transmitted otherwise you are ging to freak out over every little thing... unnecessarily.

A while ago I recommended that you you guys go and see an HIV counsellor or healthcare worker.  I still strongly suggest this, particularly seeing as how you cannot  move on from this.

You have nothing to worry about in this situation but if you choose to engage sexually with somebody with HIV then it is both of your responsibilities to ensure that you protect yourselves.
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I have not yet any particular replies for this particular problem. Thanks
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I have not yet got any particular replies for this particular problem. Thanks
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Yes you have now move on.
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to be honest I have not read anything about this broken condom incident in replies, the only thing I have read is that am going to be suspended.
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Look mate, regardless of what responses you have/have not had etc... it doesn't change the facts and the facts are these:

NO RISK

SEE A COUNSELLOR

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Stop creating new threads and stay in your orginal thread and you would have read the reply.
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You guys are not realising that I have 2 situations :
1; Of the condom not rolling to cover my whole pennis and
2; This condom breaking
    The second situation in 2 is what is bothering me and not the first problem. I need help with the second situation which I have written above(top) or heading of this forum. thanks
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Breaking between her thighs which you never had any penetration. MOVE ON
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while I was re-inserting the pennis, I just thought that may be I was infected at the entrance of her vagina and by the way we were already penetrating, it`s just that the pennis had jumped out and I was trying to re-insert it and that is when the condom broke, thanks
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IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS HIV...YOU NEED TO LEARN TO USE CONDOMS CORRECTLY !  ALWAYS USE PLENTY OF WATER BASED LUBE TO HELP AID IN PREVENTING CONDOM FAILURE.  

THIS FORUM HAS TONS AND TONS OF POSTS REGARDING RISKS...I SUGGEST YOU READ READ READ ! ! !  THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU TO HAVE TO CONTINUE COMING HERE EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX, WONDERING IF YOU WERE AT RISK.  

GO WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO HER ID DR'S APPTS...ASK QUESTIONS...EDUCATE YOURSELF.  

LASTLY...LISTEN TO WHAT IS BEING TOLD TO YOU...WHETHER IT IS ON THIS FORUM OR AT HER DR'S OFFICE.  
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