Hiv Risk

[Pilliworried]

I need help please somebody help me I will have heart attack from worrying , i was outside with my friends at 30.8.2015 and we were in party and I got drunk, so I left alone and while going back home, i met one brazilian woman( as i thought, but i am not sure, she had boobs and I can not remember if she had vagina, because she only slept in her face and made me put it from back, i asked her am i in your vagina or *** hole, she said vagina, but i felt freaked out and I took my penis outside after 1-2 seconds and i was so scared, because she acted and talked very strange, then I notice when I take my penis outside that i ejacuated like spirm went out because of scared or i do not know what)
I went fast to shower and washed my penis with soup and water and then put my clothes and ran away from her place.
I remember she did not want to suck the penis or let me kiss her boobs, so when i remember how she wanted only from *** and her body shape looked strange, i felt she is lady boy or transsexual.
My question is, i was in her *** hole without condom for 1-2 second , like just intered and when she pushed her *** to me i took it ouside and ran to shower.
I was so scared and still scared that she has Hiv and i got it from her.
I called here in Finland to ask from HIV center they said, they can make check after 4 weeks but its not sure result. and sure result will be after 12 months.
My huge worry is that i have wife and i am afraid that she will catch anthing from me, i rather kill myself than make her catch that sickness.
What can i do to check myself faster, i will die from worrying and crying

[JamesD1991]

Look, you've been told you results resemble your status.  You have tested negative.

[Pilliworried]

,5 means ,5% or what it means? also what about other STD sicknesses, when is the right time to test, if made urine test at 13 days and was negative? how accurate PCR RNA in my case if i made 30 days after that day.
Some people write at internet 8 weeks is enough and it never change? can I make combo test more early my problem is that i cannot wait because i am loseing my mind every second, i start to be real crazy person who act very strangely from the depress i have

[JamesD1991]

The chance of your results changing are about .5  You can take another test at 3 months and expect a negative.

[Pilliworried]

Dear James,
could you advise me, could you tell me what to do? when is the right time to test? can I trust the test result of pcr 28.9.2015 and combo 25.9.2015 if the day of the intercourse was 30.8.2015.
Also for other STD sicknesses which date can I check? i am really sorry to all i am just freaked out and out of my mind

[JamesD1991]

Symptoms do not diagnose HIV.  Only testing does.

[Pilliworried]

Does it matter if there is symptoms? I have read that its so near to flu symptoms and at some cases it does not even appear

[Aneeshani]

Do you feel any symptoms??

[Pilliworried]

Dear sir, I appropriate so much your help and support.I am out of my mind since that day, i left my studying place and my life has changed, i became different and cannot control my feeling and I already started depression medication with the health center drs , my health center nurses make me scared and they said that u cannot trust any result before 12 weeks, also they said that other STD sickness could appear after 6 weeks such as Syphilis.
I trust your opinion so much. I want fixed  date, which I can go to test and relay on it
If the date was 30.8.2015. what the nearest date so I could say that I am clear from STD sicknesses

[Vance2335]

You have been advised about your tests from 2 people, read what you have been advised.

[Pilliworried]

Do I need to make another tests or check? do I need to use condom during intercourse with wife?

[paranoidstd]

The day 27 duo test is conclusive. Not the pcr dna. You do not have hiv.

[Pilliworried]

Thank you so much for your answer.
what about the PCR RNA, i did it after 30 days, do i need to repeat tests, can i have intercourse with the wife without condom?

[Vance2335]

That DUO test at 27 days is conclusive

[Pilliworried]

I had as u can read from my posts unprotect anal sex with woman, which later i discovered that she was shemale. It did not last more than seconds and i took myself outside her when i felt strange.
I wanted to ask your opinion about the tests I have done.
the accident date was 30.8.2015

01.09.2015 combo HIV ag/ab( 2days ) negative

04.09.2015 fast Hiv test ab(6 days) negative

07.09.2015 combo HIV ag/ab (9 days) negative

‎07.09.2015 urine test for clymdia and gonorrhea) 9 days negative

07.09.2015 fast combo HIV ag/ab result in 20 min ( 9days) negative

‎11.09.2015 urine test for clymdia and gonorrhea) 13 days negative

25.09.2015 combo HIV ag/ab (27 days) negative

25.09.2015 fast test HIV ab(27 days) negative

‎25.9.2015 Sample from the mouth) 27 days negative

28.09.2015 P-HiV1 RNA QN (30 days ) negative

I am loseing my mind because I am married and my wife will be back at 11.10.2015 , I am so scared and dont want her to catch any sickness because of me, we never use condoms since we were married 8 years ago, i have no idea what to do please help. When can i consider myself clean and can have normal relation with my wife

[Vance2335]

If only 1-3 seconds then unlikely to get HIV.
Other than that not much we can tell you.

[Pilliworried]

I went to the place where I was and I found the transexaul and she sweared that she just made the test near time ago and i also went to health station i gave blood sample and the said they will ask me to give urine test after 2weeks and come again after 4 weeks from another blood sample then again after 8 weeks then again after 12 weeks.
What i can make to make myself calm down and what is my precentage if she is lying and i went inside her only really 1 second i pulled penis outside once it intered because i was afarid and we didnt have oral or anything just intered and pulled then washed and ran away from the place

[Pilliworried]

but i stayed inside her only 1-3 seconds, i called my health center they said i should wait 3 months and its long time, i will die from stress, i cannt live normal anymore

[paranoidstd]

You were drunk and had unprotected anal sex with a transexual. Unprotected anal sex is high risk. Please see a doctor or ER in your area and discuss the appropriate measures. Consider PEP.