i am at 12 weeks post exposure for unprotected vaginal and oral sex with a female. i am male. i have experienced just plain feeling awful the past couple of weeks, and now a large swollen lump in the right side chest just below medial collarbone. my question is, is it normal for chest nodes to swell, and if so when? i also have what i think might be thrush. i havent been to dr. yet. thanks for any input.