Scared!!

[scaredgirl26]

Hi everyone.  I know this has probably been asked 1000 times on this forum, but I need some advice/reassurance.

About 2 weeks ago I had some very brief unprotected sex with a man in the UK (Scotland).  We were both drunk and I know he did not ejaculate inside of me as he masturbated himself to climax (which ended up on my leg).  The sex lasted approx 1-2 minutes.  Stupidly this happened again a few days later but this time he only put himself inside me unprotected for about 30seconds and again did not c**.

I know I have been incredibly stupid, I have a 2yr old daughter who I want to watch growing up and i'm so anxious I can't sleep.

I have spoken with the GUM clinic who have advised me that HIV results will take 2 weeks as I am not high risk.

I don't know if I can cope.

[scaredgirl26]

Again, thanks for your comments... The people at the GUM clinic said that I was a very low risk, but I have suffered from Anxiety issues in the past, and I can feel them rearing their dark little heads again...  

[lifeinmetro]

Relax...if he had tested for HIV and come up with -ve result that means he is HIV concious person.And he cant let himself to get exposed by this virus due to lack of knowledge.You shld not be worried at all and for ur mind peace wait for 1 month and get ur self tested and repeate the test after 3 month from the risk for conclusive result.But chances here are for u to be hiv -ve.

[Teak]

A lot less than if he had ejaculated. Always use a condom.

[scaredgirl26]

thank you for your responses... :)  and i will get it at 3 months... what level of risk did/do i have?

[Teak]

Get your 3 month result and it will be conclusive.

[scaredgirl26]

I have spoken to him, he said that he was tested for HIV and Hep about a year ago and it was all negative, since then he had 1 girlfriend who he had unprotected sex with

[lifeinmetro]

I mean dont feed her as if for now unlill u got your result back.

[lifeinmetro]

HIV test two weeks after unprotected sex is not 100% predictable.Your need to wait for atleast one month.I know enxiety is killing u at evry sec. but one thing i can suggest u is go and have contact with that person whome u had unprotected sex and talk to him about his status and all if u can.This would definately help you to relax.Best fo luck for your result and take care of your daughter and donnt feed her your brest milk.