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Trying to remember-help

previously i stated that the condom was taken on and off multiple times due to lack of erection, however the room was dark thus I believe i might have lost the condom (or slipped off) on the third time we tried to have sex when I was on top of her, before finishing it up with a hand job due to lack of erection.  I believe the condom might have come off, because my penis did not have any erection at all.  What is the deal with this migraine like headache (on one side) and joint pains on the hands like pins and needle (i cannot make a tight fist due to sprained like pain on my hand)... the incident took place 5/6.  im to take a test on 5/30, is that enough time to be conclusive.  WHY IS THIS ONE SIDED HEADCHE AND SORE THROAT AT THIS TIME? THERE has never been when i felt these pains come all at once?......
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480448 tn?1426948538
If you would stop over thinking this, and get your anxiety under control...you would have no problem remembering.  Your mind is playing tricks with you b/c you are second guessing yourself.  If the condom was OFF you would have known it.  Did you have to remove the condom from your penis after the sex?  THAT's the only piece of info that matters.  Condoms do not come off and on randomly during intercourse...if they're on, they're on, and if they're off, they're off.  The only time it sounds like the condom was OFF was when you purposely TOOK it off, which was not for vaginal or anal sex...therefore, no risk.

You are obviously nervous enough about this situation to still be posting questions...therefore continue your testing to 3 months.  However...a STERN warning...when you get your results BELIEVE THEM.  Tests do not lie.

And with all that being said...move on, there is truly nothing else we can tell you that we haven't already told you.  You know what the testing guidelines are, and you know what does and doesn't constitute a risk...that's all we can do for you.
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yeah, youre actually right, i guess i was just completely devastated the fact that it was dark in there and caveat of condom coming off and on off and on off and on.... so forth that could have raised the risk and i couldnt clearly remember if i still had it on the last time before finally ejaculating by her hand.
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186166 tn?1385259382
see your doctor if you are having health concerns...no one here can diagnose you.

if you had protected sex...then move on.  if you did not...then test at 3 months for a conclusive result.

there is nothing more this forum can do for you.
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Then how do u explain these weird symptoms which I have never expereienced before?
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186166 tn?1385259382
if you would spend as much time reading this forum as you do asking questions...you would know the answer to your question.

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i stated that it might have come off or slipped off the third time it was put back on after continuous on and off removal and eventually i couldnt keep it up so just ended with a handjob with ejaculation.  it was very dark in there and i remember having no erection whatsoever on the third time.  How accurate is 3 1/2 week test?
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755829 tn?1246919225
Symptoms don't raise a risk only a risk does.  If the head of your penis was covered during sex than you have no worries for HIV.
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DO NONE OF THESE SYMPTOMS AND THE GIVEN CIRCUMSTANCES RAISE NO RISK WHATSOEVER ? PLEASE ANSWER WHY YOU JUST STATE THE STAR QUOTES INSTEAD OF ANY CLEAR EXPLANATION.
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and hard/very flat like pimples on my scalp that hurt when i touch them.  i never had soar throat like this where esphogus is swollen, my head having these pimples, neck, sharp pains on head, headache (migraine) on one side of the head....please
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why is this sore throat hard to swollow? I have been taking cough drops and i can feel the bits and pieces of it when i swollowed......what is going on with me...she was a prostitute by the way in her 40's (korean)
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