any1 take and look and comment plz

[Bryanle1988]

here my exposure:
I have a protective sex with this girls, we have sex about 15 minute and i ejaculate in the condom which my penis still in her Vaginal and leave it there for couple second. then i pull it out, i dont know if the condom was broke or it still normal. After the exposure, 2 weeks later i develop a flu, no fever, no headache, no rash,  and a blister on the head of my penis. which i thought i was infected with HIV or Herpes. But i really dotn mind about herpes, onli thing im worri is HIV.
1. got test at 2 weeks= negative result

2. 4 weeks later, have tingling in finger and feet and red lump around my penis, not blister though(which sound like herpes) TESTED FOR HIV= NEGAVTIVE (extremely worry)

3. 5 week acute paint under arm and joint(maybe anxiety or stress) HIV HHOME TEST KIT= NEGAVTIVE ( really depress)

4. 6 weeks test ORAQUICK= negative ( extremely worry)

5. 7 weeks test ORAQUIC ( pain under eye and notice some bump on throat which like swollen glymp) (reason touching and poking alot)= negative (depress and stress)

6. 8 week Blood test for STDs and HIV again= another negative result (liltle bit relax but still worrying)

My question is:
1. Can i have caught  HIV?
2. M i safe now ?
3. can i stop thinking about HIV and re-test at 12/13 weeks
4.OR HIV virus still havent shown in my body?
5. What all those symptoms mean?

plz help me@@@@@@@im desperate lost and confuse now, even with all though test and i think im infected with HIV


i have a oral sex with a girl a months ago, she develop a cold sore on her lip, she have a flu, loss of appetite, numbness on hand and feet. now im scare im having HIV, i dont mind if i have Herpes but one thing im really stress up is HIV, can i infected her through mouth. or it onli just herpes  

tell me wat i have to do now, i know im annoying but im really scare now
answer all my questtion and plz tell me wat to do now plz  

[macgyver16]

NO risk, protected sex = no risk! unless there is condom failure...

[peekawho]

It would be obvious if the condom broke.  You would have seen it when you took it off.  You're fine.  Your symptoms don't mean a thing.

[Bryanle1988]

i dont know the condom is broke or not, becuase i ejaculate inside the condom while my penis still her vagina. when i pull it out. i dont know it broke or not. that the point that make me real worry

[Bryanle1988]

thx alot, but now under my armpit kept hurting. is swollen glymp usually hurt?

[farfromperfect]

1. no
2. yes
3.yes
4. You had no risk of contracting hiv
5. anxiety and highly amplified normal body sensations due to stress.  

[Bryanle1988]

so all i need to do is to re-test at 12/13 weeks then i can lift off the weight?

[farfromperfect]

Yes that's right.  Really based on this exposure you have no reason to test, but I never discouarage someone from testig unless they are like me and have had too many tests.  You will receive a negative result.  

[bigdummy]

Man I just read all of this. You have all my symptoms, and I too got sick a little of 2wks after protected sex. You were neg at 4wks though, thats good.

[Bryanle1988]

im at my 8 weeks test and it negative too but now im scare...

[Bryanle1988]

it really hard for me to belive that im not infected, im really worry and stress even it my 8 weeks test
when im think of it, it give me a chill and a weird feeling.
how long is ur exposure big and far?

[farfromperfect]

Im at 6 months this month.  Waiting til the middle of the month before anymore testing.  I have tested 4 times out to 5 months.  

[MiamiLat]

Yes, you can stop thinking about HIV and re-test at 12/ 13 weeks to convince yourself about your NEG status. I don't see a risk here from an HIV perspective and even if the condom had broken, your risk would be low...

[Bryanle1988]

oh so u can relax now.. congrat
wat about u bd

[bigdummy]

I have not tested since 10 days after encounter. I'm now going on my 10th week and I'm terrified to test at the moment.

[Bryanle1988]

im going for my 10 wweeks next friday
man so nervoud

[bigdummy]

Atleast you got the balls to go and test.

[OrionQuest]

I know what you mean.

[Bryanle1988]

come on, wat if we dont have the coruage to tested? and wat if, i said if u do infect with HIV, u dont wnana pass it to ur family do u? onli thing to do is tested. and if again we have it....i swear i will move out and leave my family  for their own safty
i strongly recommend tested for our safety and our love one

[lovelylady27]

OH yes i agree , make darn sure

[Bryanle1988]

yup

[Bryanle1988]

if we have shown ARS be4 test, then we went and take a test, will it tell us if we infected or not?

[jddkdd]

You had protected sex never even had a risk.  Condoms are effective at protecting against HIV.  You really need to recapture your life and get a grip on yourself.  Really.  Move on.  Stop asking questions that further fuel your OCD.  Go out to a park, take a walk, go to the movies...start living your life and let go of this.

[Bryanle1988]

but i dont know if my condom was broke during it, that the onli thing im worri about.


if our body shown ARS be4 test, then we went and take a test, will it tell us if we infected or not?

[jddkdd]

condom failure is dramatic in that the rubber breaks completely and looks like a hula skirt around your penis. It is not a subtle event.  You would definitely know if the condom broke.  I am not even answering your question about ARS and testing because you had protected sex and were not at risk.  Your constant questioning is only fueling your OCD.  For your own sake, move on and get started with your life already.