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Anxiety and freaked out

I had an encounter with a sex worker about 1 month ago. For the last several weeks I've had swollen lymph nodes in my neck, I can't tell if any of my other lymph nodes are swollen. I'm not noticing anything swollen. I had an antibody test last week at 20 days which came back negative. I know that is early but I came across something online that said at 3 weeks tests are 75% accurate.

As for the risky encounter, it was with a female escort in a city with a high hiv rate. We engaged in deep kissing, covered oral on me, and fingering her. There were significant vaginal fluids everywhere and I remember at some point she mentioned she scratched me but I didn't notice any blood. Afterwards, I immediately got up and removed the condom and cleaned myself. I did clean the tip of my penis as well. I read that hiv can live outside the body for minutes so this is a concern since there were so many vaginal fluids present. After wiping myself I hopped in the shower.  I haven't notice a rash tied to ars and although I felt a little sick, I never had a high temperature. The neck lymph nodes are freaking me out!

Anyone have thoughts. I would think that I'm ok but my neck lymph nodes have been swollen for weeks and its extremely concerning.
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1. HIV is not alive. It is either active or inactive.
2.As you were advised HIV is not able to infect outside it's host.
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Thanks for the heads up. I read that HIV can live outside the body for a few minutes? Can it not be transmitted when this happens?
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Vaginal fluids are not infectious outside the body, so your situation is no risk. See a doctor is your lymph nodes are bothering you. This forum cannot address your symptoms. All we can tell you is that they have nothing to do with HIV.
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