I am a married man. No kids but contemplating to have one next year.
I made a really stupid mistake with friends. I went to a red light district with them where I fingered an old hooker only. The hooker told me she has not tested for stds after i fingered her for around 5 minutes. I fingered her without any lube for 3 minutes or so and then used some oil/cream to finger her.
My worry is because I had a big burn on my wrist area where the palm ends. I had burnt my hand a day before while ironing. The burn was around 2 cm long and 1 cm wide. I had removed the burnt skin and left an open wound. The day after the wound when I went to see the CSW the wound was drying but still red and irritated there. After fingering her, I saw it still red and its corners were shiny as if opening, with some liquid there.
I fear her vaginal fluids got into that one day old burn wound which may have been open during the fingering.
what is my risk of HIV? when do I test?