Uk,,,,Yes,,you need to help her address this situation. There is many things that she can start doing today to lead a normal life. Sticking your head in the sand is not a good idea. The fear alone at times can make you ignore things. Maybe you can come here for awhile and talk to her about what you have learned and guide her slowly into the idea of it all. Good Luck to you and your wife!
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