am I crazy

[headshop]

I am going to drive 5 hrs this Friday tx night, to Moyock NC to meet Carol a woman I met on myspace and after talking to daily have decided we are love with the person we've been communicating with. She knows I am on tx, and my situation with sx and such. She has worked in the medical field a lot of her life is presently the main tech for an orthopedic surgeon. She has invited me up to stay in a 8 bedroom resort house at Sand Bridge Beach in Virginia. Her nephew is getting married that weekend and I am invited to that, to meet her family, 3 daughters and enjoy the beach with her and get to know each other.

We both have really worked this over in our minds and so forth. She doesn't want it to be awkward and wants us to really fall in love, not just love each other, but the whole nine yards.  I have always felt we were soulmates.

We will be together not in the same room from Friday until Monday. My concerns are besides the obvious is my sx during tx, also my essential tremors rear their ugly head at a moments notice moreso  through tx.
I just want to make her feel good and it was worth it and go from there.
The most I have driven since being on tx is about 45 minutes. I have never driven to Moyock NC, which is near Elizabeth City.  I hope there are a lot of pitstops on the way.

I really don't want to cause her any unhappiness, or pain. I don't want to kill myself doing this also. I guess if truelove is afoot we'll get through this,  I guess I was thinking when we planned this that I would be well into tx and not experiencing these sx.
Anyway, am I crazy,     It is a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart.

Peace and health

This the first time I have attempted anything like this really in my life and going through tx.

I have fears and try to give them to faith, I guess the main one is what if we don't click, then I drive home. What if I am sick from tx, she said that I may have to sleep on a couch so i am not sure that I'll have my own room. I am thinking about the using the bathroom 8 times a night, excluding diarrhea.

[Isobella]

Whoa!  A real love story!  

I love it and am so happy for you both.

Ok, next time is her turn to drive, lol!!!

Hope your labs improve soon :-)

Izzy

[can-do-man]

Goof....No juicy details
Headshop.....she said she has had a smile and a glow at work
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I think now we know the answer goof.

headshop, really glad it worked out for you. Best of luck to both of you.

cando

[Jacob43]

This is exciting, and again I wish you the best!!  

Upon reading some post comments on 'driving' while treating... perhaps it is best she travel to see you, at least until the end of treatment. :)  We don't want you jeopardizing your safety and I'm certain you would be devastated hurting someone else along the way - from being tired, etc.  You made it, and I, for one, (and sure everyone agrees) are relieved!  And very happy with your positive report about Carol.  I've got a good thing going on, and a romantic and wish you the same... cheers.

"The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart."  (Josiah G. Holland)

[Marcia2202]

I am happy for you two! May the love last forever and be sweet as honey!

God bless!!!

Marcia

[headshop]

I believe i did the journey for 2 reasons, to be with Carol and prove that we were ment for each other, and that through my own petty pride and faith, that I could do it.
I talked to Carol tonight, she said she has had a smile and a glow at work.

We love each other
We like each other
We make each other laugh

We miss each other

This is just the beginning

Peace and Health

btw, it almost killed me, and if my hemoglobin had been down one point today I would of had a transfusion.  

It is a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart.
Everette Ulysses McGuill

[Jacob43]

As stated in both my comments above, I'm glad you followed your heart, dude!

You've got our interest up... so keep us informed on how this progresses.  Really rooting for you!