Sorry my question more clear, I had protected m to f vaginal intercourse and then she performed unprotected oral on me, I never performed oral on her. 3 weeks later she claims I gave her herpes, she didn’t say HSV 1 or 2, which later I found out she was diagnosed to have HSV 1, by culture on her vagina. I went to get tested 6 weeks after the incident, but ONLY for HSV2, because I thought she meant HSV 2. The test was igg herpes select, I tested negative at less than .9, I waited for the 3 month window period and had the full test for stds, all came back negative except HSV 1 which was over 5, HSV 2 was again under .9, My research says just having genital to genital sex with her, the chance that I gave it to her, or she gave it to me is slim. Which leaves me to believe I’ve always had the HSV1, because I never had any symptoms, oral or genital, never a cold sore or any type of sore on my genitals, and I was very aware months after the incident, and no real symptoms. The only possible symptoms were roughly 4 weeks after the encounter I had a small abrasion on my penis shaft which did not hurt, itch, or give me any other problems and healed in less than a week, roughly 12 weeks later, after examining my penis every day since then, I noticed 2 tiny abrasions on the other side of the shaft, same thing as first abrasion, no pain, itch, and was on the other side of penis. But what I did, come across was much discharge 2.5 months after the incident and spots of dry skin. The Discharge was clear, didn't hurt when I pee, and didn't have an odor, and came up when I got aroused by my gf, which sounds normal, but was much more than I ever had before. So my questions are 1) Do those abrasions sound like GHSV1, they were my only symptoms 2) At this point can I go back to having sex and consider my HSV1 to be oral, and not worry about infecting my part 4) Does the dry skin and discharge sound like any other STD, even though tested negative for all?