So it's six days later and I don't have a cold sore, which I think is a good sign? Today when I was walking I felt a little raw patch to my lips, like I tore off a piece of skin. I've been putting on chap stick since I started feeling this tingling sensation and been rubbing my lips together, so I may have just rubbed my lips raw, but what do you guys think? I still sometimes feel this tingly feeling (mostly when I think about it honestly), but like I said its not a pins and needles feeling, more of just a tickle or vibration. Also don't cold sores appear 1-2 days after you start to feel a tingling sensation. It has been 9 days since I hooked up with the girl. Also, I remember my lips felt weird a few hours before I hooked up with the girl, but thought it was just because I had a cigar in my mouth (unlit, it was just a prop for my halloween costume), but it is the same weird feeling i had.
I really want to say its just me over thinking combined with chapped lips, but I'm a worrier. Thank you for any replies and advice
If you have had fever sores as a child, then there is a reasonable chance that you have oral HSV1. 60% of the population do.
You cannot be reinfected orally, hence what you are experiencing may nit be herpes at all or perhaps related to an existing infection.
It would be unusual to be infected from giving oral sex full stop. Also unusual not to display typical symptoms in an adult on first exposure to HSV.