http://www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_learn_oralherpes.cfm has terrific info on hsv1. You have no reason to assume your hsv1 isn't oral at this point. this link has the info you need for yourself and your future partners.
grace
you can relax, HSV-1 is usally aquired as a child (that's how I got it) so is not considered an STD per se. Just tell your partners about it and explain to them how HSV-1 is mostly aquired and explain the possible risks when a visible cold sore is presnet, and they should be understanding.
Visit the herpes forum for further questions and concerns on HSV-1.
thank you very much ,i really appreciate every single word of what you have said to reassure me