From time to time maybe every six months, i get an outbreak of oral herpes on my lip, i have a niece, and i am very careful around her when i have an outbreak, I never kiss or go near her, however recently i cam to carry her and she hit my lip with her hand accidentally touch my cold sore, i have notice minor redness on the corner of her nose, its red, no blister, my question is could i have passed it on simply through that??? and how can i tell it is herpes, does it display the same characteristics in toddlers as it does in adults, in relation to the various stages like blistering and drying up??