I am in Canada. I think I have herpes on my buttox. I have been to 2 seperate doctors 2 times. Both times, I requested a swab or a blood test, both times, the doctor refused, just gave me drugs. They said the swab was "unneccessary", and that the blood test was "unavailable in Canada", and even if it was, it would be a "waste of time because most everybody has the herpes virus anyway - 90% of the population" and that "it can't differentiate between 1 or 2". Another thing they said was that they "could order the test from the US, but it would also cost $300.00 from my pocket, and it would be a waste if time." IS THIS TRUE?! WHY DOES IT SEEM LIKE THERE IS BETTER CARE IN THE US? Are there any Canadians out there who have had different treatment?!
My hubby and I want to have kids (we have been together 8 years and are in our mid 30's) - I want to know this information, as a logical parent-to-be. Also, I would like to know if HE HAS IT and how it would alter our lives before, during and after pregnancy. We can't find anyone to test us! We have been to seperate doctors in seperate cities - same result. Any advice?!