Hi, a few days ago i noticed a small flesh-colored pimple like bump on the head of my penis. Knowing that the spot I noticed it was irrelevant to the pimples ive had before due to shaving of my pubic area I was quickly concerned. I have had unprotected sex/ oral sex before although i never showed any symptoms of herpes. I immediately freaked out and popped it to see if anything weird came out but what came out was barely any clear fluid I mean not a lot at all maybe it was because the bump was not even a cm. I do have flu like symptoms and did have a headache not necessarily a fever, the bump scabbed over kinda like a musquito bite would if u scratched it hard enough the bump was still some-what irritating maybe it was because i peeled the scab out of curiosity. I went to a Family planning and had a specialist look at my "bump" or what was left over of it and she didnt think it was. I'm just freaking out because I read about symptoms and you can make a strong argument that I could indeed have genital herpes. Please fill me in on your thoughts thank you.