This forum is an un-mediated, patient-to-patient forum for questions and support regarding herpes issues such as: Herpes symptoms and treatments, causes, diagnosis, and herpes in men, tests, telling your spouse or partner.
before i've had the virus i was energetic, active, happy, and talkative. after contracting the virus i feel fatigued and have to sleep for over 10 hours, still i feel exhausted. i also get constant mood swings, feel depressed and inactive. i get fevers,excruciating migraines that never seem to go away and theres times where i feel a wave of nausea. what can i do to be healthy like i used to? i exercise regularly and take vitamins, that doesnt seem to have any affect.
It is quite common for bewly diagnosed people to feel low, this should pass in time,there is a lot of emoyional turmoil attached to Herpes and some tend to give it more power over them than they should,once ypu have come to terms with the condition and accpeted it it is much better to live happily with it rather than trying o fight against it,it's not the end of the world try to see it as only a skin condition that just happens to be contagious from time to time,don't let it take over your life,it shouldn't cause too much trouble it is really more of an annoying inconvenience than anything else,however if you are having a lot of recurrent outbreaks it might be an idea to try Suppressive Therapy to lessen the outbreaks which in turn may help to lift your mood ......
In between outbreaks try to forget about it because the more you stress over it the more outbreaks you're likely to have .......
Also try some relaxation and be kind to yourself nice bubble baths and do things you enjoy .......
If this has been going on for more than a couple of weeks, it's time to see your doctor. This is not a typical reaction to herpes or a typical side effect of herpes. Also ask for a consult to a therapist so you can start talking about this and working on your depression.
I just found out a week ago that I had herpes. But I think I have had it for awhile cause of the signs I'm aware of now I'm always tired and want to sleep I can even do house work without getting tired. I can dust and then have to go back to bed cause I'm tired. Its even affecting me getting up every morning for work. How long does this last.
I've had herpes for 4 years now and I can tell you all categorically that it DOES cause feelings of depression, mood swings and extreme tiredness. This has been my experience. The depression and mood swings are nothing to do with feeling low or unhappy because I've got herpes. These symptoms come just before an OB. Unexplainable low mood and extreme tiredness and I never knew why until the link occurred to me. It's all due to the OB itself. It's part if it and a very difficult part too. Depression is something I've never had but my mood always changes significantly before any other sign of an approach OB. The people who are telling others that these are not symptoms are wrong. They say this because they don't experience it themselves. There are many different variations of herpes and it affects everyone differently. There is simply not enough research on this...but it is fact. Herpes does cause significant mood changes, depression (NOT IN ANY WAY LINKED TO FEELING SAD ABOUT HAVING HERPES...as I'm over it!) and extreme tiredness. FACT.
I get a small herpes outbreak on my lower back every now and then. Normally when I'm stressed. I've had this for over 30 years and I can definitely tell you your mood is affected. Before an outbreak I feel very low and flat. Plus my joints hurt. It feels like very very bad pmt. the mood normally starts to lift as soon as the outbreak occurs. I've got one now and I've felt mentally low all week but today it's lifting coz it's coming out. I just put up with it and once it's out on my back I feel better. Don't know if there's anything docs can do.
I've had herpes of probably 45 years. Before an outbreak I feel like I'm coming down with the flu, my knees ache, I get stuffy and fatigued. I also go into a malaise, get depressed, just feel down. Then I notice what feels like a nick or scratch on the corner of my mouth, generally the next morning I am beginning to develop a coldsore, I then use zovirax which keeps the symptoms in check for the duration. I have both genital and oral herpes, luckily I have had only about two outbreaks of genital in 40 years or so, the oral, usually one or less a year. Sometimes I go for several years without a breakout. One more thing I have noticed when I have a larger outbreak, I feel dirty as well as depressed and tired.. I read once years ago about that odd symptom, but can't find any reference to it anywhere. Has anyone else experienced this ?
Chicken and egg - is it body then mind or the other way round? I get herpes on my butt. I've had it since mis-spent youth- 30 years ago. It does seem to be connected with stress and feeling run down, rather than any guilt over ancient sex, in my case. Maybe it is related to depression because I think I might have been diagnosed with that too at around the same time. Sometimes feel the herpes is just waiting for my normal health to give out and then rampage all over! Actually it only occurs for a week, maybe twice a year and is mildly uncomfortable.
Copyright 1994-2016 MedHelp International. All rights reserved.
MedHelp is a division of Aptus Health.
This site complies with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health information.
The Content on this Site is presented in a summary fashion, and is intended to be used for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure, treatment plan, product, or course of action. Med Help International, Inc. is not a medical or healthcare provider and your use of this Site does not create a doctor / patient relationship. We disclaim all responsibility for the professional qualifications and licensing of, and services provided by, any physician or other health providers posting on or otherwise referred to on this Site and/or any Third Party Site. Never disregard the medical advice of your physician or health professional, or delay in seeking such advice, because of something you read on this Site. We offer this Site AS IS and without any warranties. By using this Site you agree to the following Terms and Conditions. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your physician or 911 immediately.