start your own post and we can discuss the risks of hsv1 there - thanks!
grace
Hi grace,
Does that mean that if you have genital hsv 1 your partner can still get oral hsv 1 if he doesnt have hsv 1 oral?
I have genital hsv 1 and am.so terried of passing it on to my new partner. My ex bf had cold sores didnt have one present at the time nor hadnt disclosed anything to.me. Im so scared no one will want me :(
does she have hsv1 or hsv2 genitally? Does she take daily suppressive therapy?
have you been tested for herpes to know your own status?
If we assume she has hsv2, if you do nothing but avoid sex any time she has anything going genitally, you are 96% likely each year NOT to contract hsv2 from her. If she takes daily suppressive therapy and you also use condoms too in addition to avoiding sex during symptoms, you are 99% likely each year NOT to contract hsv2 from her. Very low risk in general and every precaution you take, just puts the odds more in your favor of staying negative.
she would have to have hsv1 genitally in order for you to get hsv1 from performing oral sex on her. Is that the type she has? You aren't likely in general to contract herpes orally from performing oral sex on her, regardless of the type she has!
grace