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Gave her oral sex ...possible HIV?

Sooo...A lot of things took place, i gave my long time ex of 7 years oral sex (not for long btw, 69 position this was on a late friday night/Saturday morning) the next day i ate some very hot soup that i believed burned the roof of my mouth. The next day after when going to brush my teeth i feel pain, when i stuck a mirror in there to see what was going on, right in the front of the room right behind my front teeth was all red and in flamed (kinda like red dots)) i literally started panicking now thinking she gave me something like HIV....

that week (last week) i felt so many symptoms my body was doing a lot such as TMJ (which i still have), body aches, headaches, feel like i'm going to lost control...I went to the dentist to get it checked, she coudnt make it out (referenced it looking like a burn) then went and got tested yesterday when the NP looked at it, she also referenced that it was probably due to a burn, i am having a hard time thinking was it the burn that that cause this or girl?

my energy has been low, haven't felt like doing anything, lost desire ...i'm sure it doesn't help that i've been reading a lot on the internet about this...i just want some clarity.
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15249123 tn?1478652475
Your odds of any std is very very low from giving her oral sex. Hiv is not a risk from this type of exposure. You will read otherwise but there is no evidence to support the likelihood of contracting hsv from oral sex.
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13276481 tn?1451146767
We are saying the same thing, perhaps my wording could have been better.
You asked for confirmation concerning feelingundones reply and I tried to give it.
Sorry for the confusion.
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3191940 tn?1447268717
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Yes, both are accurate.  Your odds of an STD are very, very low, and your odds of getting HIV are even lower - like, non-existent.

You burned your mouth with some soup, which is the cause of your mouth pain.  
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13276481 tn?1451146767
At best oral is a theoretical risk, especially male to female
The Drs who used to take questions here and are well known and respected in their field say there are no confirmed Hiv infections from oral.
Also ARS doesn't occur the next day.
As you were told, your risk is greater to catch another std or sti.
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above he stated "your odds of any std is very very low" and now your saying that my risk is greater to catch another STD or STI... which one is it? i may be paranoid at the moment, but i do believe i have every reason to be
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