50-80% of the U.S. population has antibodies for HSV-1; it's extremely common. Most of the infections are oral, and just over 20% of those with oral HSV-1 are symptomatic or develop obvious cold sores. You really have no need to worry. If you haven't had obvious symptoms yet then you will probably rarely, if ever develop symptoms!
If you haven't noticed anything going on genitally then most likely your infection is oral, and you have no reason to think otherwise.
HSV-1 is spread to genitals most of the time through oral sex. It is unlikely that you have HSV-1 genitally if you have not had any symptoms down there.
Hey I'm scared too...i haven't been to the dr. Yet but im almost positive that I have HSV. I feel so scared and ashamed. I found oit a bunch of home remedies that i started today if you want me to tell you some things i got lmk. Cross your fingers for me and ill do the same for u.