Aunti, thank you for your information and advice. The sebaceous may be it, I hope so and hope not to have the genital hsv. And yes I probably am worrying too much I talked to her again today and she was trying to reassure me once again that I'm fine and called me a hypocondriac but nevertheless I will still be seeing the dr. tomorrow but I am much more confident now. Thank you again.
Google fordyce spots to see if that fits with what you have. Those are the sebaceous glands that were mentioned earlier. (Since you already have a thread going, you should pick one and keep all your questions to that thread. Read the posting tips for more info on that.)
You should ask for a type specific IgG blood test, as bumps can't be cultured, unless your doctor can do a PCR swab, and most don't have the supplies for that.
Keep in mind that it can take 4 months to show positive, so if this test is negative, it doesn't mean you didn't get it. Since its only been a couple of weeks, if your test is positive now, you had it before you were with this woman.
However, and this is important, chances are really very slim that you got it. If you had a long term relationship with her, your chances of getting it are about 4% a year. Getting it from a one time encounter from someone who didn't have an outbreak is not likely at all, and you are worrying too much.
Also remember that 1 in 4 women have hsv2, and 90% of them don't know they have it, so statistically, you have already been with someone who has it and just didn't know to tell you.
Aj