I'm probably going to get a lot of mixed reactions with this question, but I think it's a fair question. I've done a lot of research on genital HSV-1 since I was diagnosed. I'm talking, HOURS. From everything I've gathered, it's a fair statement to say that genital HSV-1 is much rarer than genital HSV-2 and oral HSV-1. So transmittal rates are extremely low.
Now, can't people with genital HSV-1 "get around" disclosing to their partners by just saying they have the oral HSV-1 virus? It's literally the exact same virus, only different location, and oral HSV-1 is easier to transmit so quite honestly they should be more frightened by that (funny how it works...).
Now, I guess it depends on whether or not you feel you could "sleep at night", but really from all I've gathered it seems like if I did have oral HSV-1, I'd have more of a chance giving genital HSV-1 to my partner, than I would with my genital HSV-1 status. So, in the event that my partner WERE to breakout from HSV-1 after being with me, we could just say it must have been after I gave him oral sex.
Sneaky, I know, but doesn't it make sense? People must do this a lot...
Also, I noticed on herpes dating sites, there are very few people with genital HSV-1, which leads me to believe a lot of people with this don't disclose. I really feel like it's unnecessary, as long as you're telling them you have HSV-1. I'd like to get anyone's thoughts on this.