I made a stupid mistake and went to a massage parlor with a sex worker. I did not have intercourse, but we were both naked. She kissed my chest a few times, and her vagina may have rubbed on to my groin while doing that. Otherwise, she masturbated me with her hands and breasts, which i feel like really rubbed in the HSV. no protection was used, as no actual intercourse happened. But she did touch herself and subsequently touched my penis.8 days after, i noticed a slight sore throat for a day and then bad runny nose, congestion, and sneezing came on, which lasted for about a week. No fever, but i also didn't check because i thought it was sudden bad allergies. I also noticed what appeared to look like a pimple on my pubic region. It was a single 'pimple', that just had a red base, slightly raised, didn't notice any fluid filled blister or vesicle, just a slight raise, like a very small pimple or infected hair. Now i'm terrified that that was actually herpes. The runny nose and sneezing lasted for about 5-6 days (which seemed long for allergies). The 'pimple' didn't progress much further and while it is still visible now (~ 5 weeks now), it just looks like some red skin. I just thought it was an odd pimple.
I had sex with my partner about 2 weeks ago. and then 6 days after she developed a rash and itchy labia. It went away after 4 days. However, then another 'pimple' showed up on my pubic region, 1cm away from the original 'pimple'. again as a single raised red base around a hair follicle. Again, i continued to think it was a pimple but am now terrified that not only is it HSV, but that i've infected my partner and that she just had mild symptoms with the mild rash (she has previously tested negative for HSV). With that second 'pimple' I've also started getting runny and stuffy nose really bad again and constantly coughing up bright neon yellow mucus, an indication of fighting off an infection. The mucus has been going for more than a week now. So I got a herpes type specific igg test exactly 6 weeks from the massage incident. and test results came back negative. However, I'm not sure if its simply too early still.With all the runny nose, congestion, and mucus, and itching for my partner, is it possible that I'm actually hsv positive?How accurate is HSV test at 6 weeks post-exposure?Is it possible that i simply haven't seroconverted yet, even if i've already had possible symptoms? If those 'pimples' were symptoms, would antibodies typically be detectable already (compared to someone who had asymptomatic hsv, which might require waiting 12? 16? weeks post-exposure?)?Is runny and stuffy nose considered typical flu-like sypmtoms that are often described with HSV outbreaks?Is it possible that my described sexual massage activities likely could transmit HSV?Please help, i'm so worried. Thank you.