HSV risk?

[Petermarkos85]

Hello i have a concern and would appreciate if anyone can help me. yesterday i had an incident, i went to a message parlor and got a body message, when i was lying on my back the lady put her butt on my penis and started moving for like a minute(i think this is frottage) and then she got off and gave me a hand job. there was no penetration (vaginal or anal) and my penis did not touch her vaginal or anus. i checked her vagina closely and there were no lesions. she says she is clean and she has a boyfriend and never had sex with anyone else, she just does message. what is my risk? thanks a lot.

[Petermarkos85]

Alright thank you very much, ill try not to think too much about it

[feelingundone]

I understand your anxiety. That being said you truely needn't worry.

[Petermarkos85]

Thank you for your answer and support. I don't know why it's giving me a lot of anxiety though. I can't stop worrying

[feelingundone]

Very very low risk. You were not at any risk from the handjob. Hsv can shed anywhere in the boxer shorts area. The virus does shed around 18% of days even when no outbreak is present. That being said you chance of contracting the virus with unprotected sex with a known possitive partner is 1 in a 1000. Now your exposure was a lot less risky and she probably doesn't have genital hsv2.
Your odds are really to low to quantify and certainly warrent no worry.
Hope this helps

[Life360_Dave]

Hi from what you state you had your under ware on as you mention she put her butt on your penis and then you say they did not make contact. If this is so you had zero risk.

[Petermarkos85]

no both of us were naked

[Petermarkos85]

she was rubbing her butt crack against my penis, but my head did not come near the anus and no vaginal contact at all