no it does not. lysine doesn't have much effect on herpes and we don't recommend its use.
Thanks again Grace, your insight is very helpful. I agree with you about the risk of pregnancy being about the same as contracting herpes, and how comparatively having a baby would be much more of an issue but alas I am not the one on the other side of the fence and must be patient and try to help him become comfortable with the situation.
Does anyone have any information regarding whether or not taking a natural supplement, like Lysine, helps to further suppress the virus in addition to a daily antiviral?
correct, no risk yet for him.
Put it in perspective - if you are in the bc pill, your ideal risk of pregnancy is 1%/year ( real use is 8% ). Would you tell a fellow no you won't have sex with them because you are afraid you'll get pregnant while on the pill? I think we can all agree that having a baby with someone is more of an issue than them potentially getting herpes from you right? Can't control a baby with 1 or 2 pills a day.
grace
Thank you for your response Grace, it's refreshing to know that I am doing what I can. I do have another question though: During mutual masturbation he does not wear a condom - it doesn't seem like this would pose any risk since his genitals are not coming into contact with mine. Am I wrong? He washes his hands when he is done touching me and we make sure not to touch his genitals if either of us have touched mine. Also he has not performed oral sex on me, so it seems to me at this point his risk of having caught it either genitally or orally is zero. Please correct me if I am wrong.
I want to have sex with him but I don't want him to feel pressured and I don't want him to be uncomfortable and constantly concerned about contracting it - that would just ruin the experience.
washing up after sex just makes you smell better. the virus is transmitted during the sex act itself. by the time you are done having sex, the risk is over. the virus doesn't lay on the skin and work its way down.
If you take daily suppressive therapy, avoid sex anytime you have anything going on genitally and use condoms properly ( apply them when the clothes come off, not just for actual penetration ), your male partner's risk is 1% each year. Very reasonable right?
keep asking questions as you both have them :)
grace