I'm a female on suppressive therapy. Recently had an encounter with a man. Both naked, no penetration, no outer play....definitely embraced naked though. He manually stimulated me, I did the same for him. He washed his hands after. Rolling around he had to have made contact with my inner thigh, and labia. Is he at risk? I didn't tell him I have herpes, should I have told him, and how can I continue a relationship? He's a serious romantic prospect.