I have recently had sex (1week) with a very questionable woman. I used a condom, and even dental dam but was so drunk that gave oral for about 2 minutes unprotected. I know that was stupid. About 2 days later I woke up with red sores on the back of my tongue, inflamed gums, white colored tongue, swollen throat glands and tingling lips. Since then I have noticed one small red bump on the base of my penis, in the hair area not on shaft and newly formed brown spots in my pubic hair area. No burning, no itching. The red bump is very small and has been there a few days no popping or scarring. I went to the doctor and they said neither one looked like herpes but they were not sure what caused it. Also when I push my lips out i see little white bumps that you can not see unless you push out your lips. I am really worried. The sores on my tongue and the bump near my genitals do not hurt and i never had trouble swollowing. I have had some flu like symptoms but was not sure if those were caused by my constant worrying and looking at websites about symptoms. fever but not very high or very long, no real body aches, but a slightly sore back, and have just been very tired all the time. The doctor referred me to a dermatologist to check out the brown skin dots in my pubic region and i have been taking azutromcina for my throat, nimesulida for the immflamation, and herpesil for the sores. could these medications be the reason that none of these symptons are very painful or irritating? I am scared? what should i do? Is it herpes? I cant take the test for at least another 4 weeks to be sure. any advice?