About 3 years ago I had symptoms that seemed like HSV-2: high fever accompanied by a few small sores on my vaginal area. I saw my doctor who said it "looked like herpes" and tested me with a genital culture and blood test, however at that time both came back negative. I have never had another known outbreak, and have been blood tested twice in the last 2 years for HSV 1 & 2/IgG and IgM and have always had negative results. I'm frustrated because my doctor says "well it looked like herpes, so you have to assume you have it" even though all my blood tests have been negative and I have not had outbreaks. I struggle with this when I date new people as I don't want to go through the stress of telling them if I don't actually have it. What would you say, is it possible to have herpes and spread it to partners, even with mulitple negative blood tests?