I had two sexual encounters with an escort recently and want to assess my risk of catching HSV-2.
To start out with, I'm happily married, but sometimes make the mistake of seeing sex workers. However, I never engage is vaginal or oral sex. I only get a hand job.
The last two encounters were over the last week. In both cases, she gave me a hand job and inserted a sex toy in my anus. However, within the 15 before, she had touched herself (not inserting just touching the outside of the vaginal area under her panties). There wasn't any direct or immediate contact that I recall (i.e. her touching herself and immediately touching me). Lub was also used. The sex toy was clean and had a condom on it so that doesn't worry me.
She said that she basically gets tested every other month and I didn't notice any apparent lesions (however, she was wearing panties the whole time so I only say her upper thighs).
IF she was infected, would this exposure be a risk for HSV-2 ?
If I understand correctly, unless there's direct skin to skin genital contact, there isn't any risk for HSV-2 ?
I know all this must be very trivial for you, but there are alot of discrepancies between what you read on the internet. Some sites say that mutual masturbation is a risk for HSV-2 (some put it as the same risk level as unprotected oral!). I understand you're quite an expert in the matter so I value your opinion very much.
HSV 2 does require direct contact for transmission. Sex toys are an obvious exception. And your question in no way seems trivial to me. I guess you are going to have to decide on a source of information to believe. It doesn't have to be me, but you need to settle on something because otherwise you will drive yourself nuts with this worry.
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