Ok.. I have been with my partner for 10 months and both of us got tested for stds and we were both clean. However, he had a herpes outbreak in april. the outbreak wasn't as nasty as the pictures on the internet. it was just one single bump on the side of his penis and he has been taking medication ever since. He went to the doctor and they said it was genital herpes. However.. I got tested a week ago and my results came negative for HSV 2. Assuming he had it without knowing since we were together, what are chances the him contracting herpes to me? We've had unprotected sex for 10 months and based on the research that I did the male to female transmission rate is higher than female to male transmission. Oh, I also called the STD hotline and they said usually when you get tested for STDs, they only check you for gonorrhea, siphyllis, and chlymidia unless you ask specifically for herpes so.. there are chances that he had it since then without knowing it. A couple questions that I have to address here.
1. Could it be that he was misdiagnosed for having herpes? because as far as I know herpes shows up 2-10 days after the exposure, althought it could be dormant for longer than that. and HSV-2 is way more nasty than HSV-1. he only had ONE outbreak ever since compared to the average 4-5 times a year.
2. Could it be that he has HSV-1 instead of HSV-2?
3. I have been having unprotected sex with him for 10 months. My result for HSV-2 came back negative and I didn't get tested for HSV-1. Could I have a false negative results?
4. How often are herpes misdiagnosed?