Don't tell him anything yet. As you have concerns regarding HSV2 then surely you will be asking him to test before any sexual activity takes place?
That way you can both take the tests and compare notes. Your test should be 12-16 weeks after your last sexual contact.
Thank you! I will not be continuing sex with either of these people (since they can't be honest or prove that they are clean). I think I will also contact my normal doctor and ask her advice on what to do. The last thing I want to do is infect somebody if I do have it. I wish I could know now because I have a guy interested in me and I've just been plain honest with him and wish I could say "never mind it was false or cross reaction."
Thank you! I will not be continuing sex with either of these people (since they can't be honest or prove that they are clean). I think I will also contact my normal doctor and ask her advice on what to do. The last thing I want to do is infect somebody if I do have it. I wish I could know now because I have a guy interested in me and I've just been plain honest with him and wish I could say "never mind it was false or cross reaction."
The chlamydia and antibiotics are not impacting testing for HSV. Given that though, I would be asking these partners to test and no sex until they show you results. Ask them to include HSV specifically under the circumstances.
As a HSV1 carrier it is noted that false positives do occur possibly from a form of 'cross reaction' but also other proteins in the blood apart from IgG antibodies. Your value is very low and you have had no symptoms. This would not be unusual though given you already have HSV1 including an immune system that will have some impact on HSV2 if an infection occurs.
My view, you've had two partners. For sex with either to continue they should have IgG testing for HSV2. You would need to wait until 16 weeks after the last sexual exposure to be sure of a negative result.
There is a very small risk with each episode of unprotected oral sex that you oral HSV-1 could pass to genitals. Note though there is no practical risk if that person already has HSV1, such as an oral infection.