Is this herpes

[freakingout248]

Hello,

2 days ago I had protected sex with a prostitute in Peru. Today I see a little red blotch on the head of my penis. Here are the details of what happened:

1.) Had protected oral sex with a condom.

2.) Had vaginal sex with condom on.

3.) She masturbated me with the condom off.

4.) She stuck her finger in my anus using the used condom.

I have a couple of questions:

1. If some of her vaginal fluid got on my penis when taking off the condom can I get herpes?
2. If her vaginal fluid was on the used condom when she stuck her finger in my anus can I get herpes?
3. I am really worried about the red blotch on my penis, it is small but I am worried. There was nothing there yesterday or today. What are the first initial signs of herpes?
4. I am uncircumcised. Is it easier for me to get herpes or an STD?
5. What is the earliest I can get tested for herpes?

Thanks. I am so worried I'm not sure how I will make it through the next days.

[gracefromHHP]

no it is not.

[freakingout248]

Thanks for all your help! I just have one more question, I haven't seen any physical signs of herpes, or any other std in my genital area. However my stomach has been quite upset the past few days, a little crampy and diarrehea. Would this be related to an std?

Thanks again.

[gracefromHHP]

if you feel the need to get tested, you do have to wait 3 months for type specific herpes igg blood testing.

ob's would occur anytime between 2-20 days post encounter.

[freakingout248]

Thanks for your comments. The red spot is not on the head of my penis today but I noticed a little red bump on my shaft. At this point I think I am analyzing my penis too much and noticing variations that were already there. I do have two questions:

When would I start noticing an outbreak?
Should I wait 3 months to get tested?

[gracefromHHP]

it's very unlikely that this is a std going on. you had protected oral sex and protected genital sex.  

if this gets worse or lasts longer than a few days, see your medical provider for a proper work up but odds are it isn't a std.

grace