Massage Parlor

[ncsub001]

I recently visited a massage parlor and was interested in a handjob because of my fear of STDs mostly, herpes.  The lady that I visited started the handjob and then spit on her hand for lubrication and then started to touch my penis.  I din't like it so I asked her not to do that again and she asked me to provide the lube because she didn't like doing a handjob without lube.  She placed her hand that she had previously spit in on my face for me to spit in.  I did this once and when she tried again I stopped her.  He had with spit had direct contact with my penis and my face, which had a pimple on it that could make it easy for herpes to reach the blood stream???  After the handjob I said sorry about the lubrication but herpes is a fear of mine.  Her lack of comment and profession makes me believe she very well has herpes.  I have been worried sick for three days and have made myself physically ill from the worry.  I have no symptoms other than tired from lack of sleep and a slight fever, but I think this could be due to my excessive worry about catching herpes.  I travel home to see my wife today and don't know if I should tell her and risk our marriage, I just feel like I am staring down the barrel of a loaded gun.

[ncsub001]

He had with spit had direct contact with my penis and my face, which had a pimple on it that could make it easy for herpes to reach the blood stream???

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Her hand with spit, had direct contact with my penis and my face, which had a pimple on it that could make it easy for herpes to reach the blood stream???

[daisy315]

You wouldn't contract Herpes from this incident,if she performed unprotected Oral sex on you then that would be a different matter, I don't think you need risk your marriage by telling your wife about a very low risk incident,however,a word of advice, if you must visit "other women" do remember first and foremost that you are married and you MUST 100% respect your wife's health it would be very irresponsible of you to put her at risk and have HER staring down the barrel of a loaded gun unknowingly ...... how you manage your own health is up to you but being married to someone doesn't give you the right to put that persons health at risk.

Daisy      

[ncsub001]

Diasy,

Thanks for your comments and I agree it is very low risk, but still risk.  I have always had small white bumps on my lips, after my trip I noticed they became more active.  They started to move around and multiply.  I also had a slight sore throat and chapped lips.  With all these things coming together I had to tell my wife, not to kiss me anymore I didn't feel well.  I think she knows something is up, but is trying to handle it in her own way.  I went to the doctor that night and he said it looks like Angular cheilitis and something else but he is not sure.  After returning from the doctor my wife looked at what I have on my lips and she has similar bumps.  The problem is from what I can tell angualr cheilitis is not contagious.  I have an appointment with a dermatologist today which is day 5.  My lips have been looking about the same for the last two days.  I haven't had a fever, the sore throat is very slight, my lips are still chapped, but I don't see anything that looks like herpes.  I hope I am out of the woods and would still welcome any comments.

[gracefromHHP]

Saliva with a hand job is not a risk.

grace