sometimes hard to differentiate between herpes and bacterial infections in the beard area on men.
it's not cheap but you can contact Terri Warren's westover heights clinic to be a phone patient. she can arrange for swabbing of your oral area and genital area to help determine what you have where. not cheap and easy answers but best you can do at this point.
I think it comes down to putting everything under the magnifying glass (I think you've told others this in posts I've read :)).I could have had these tongue issues before herpes. The cuts on my gums are also painless and already healed for the most part. Like you said I've been thinking maybe I just cut it on something. I guess the only issue I had was the cuts on my chin. Although they didn't hurt I did find some pictures I had taken of them. They are actually a lot worse than I thought and kinda grew in size as the fluid leaked. They do look more like herpes now that I'm out of denying I have it. It's been about 1-2 months since I first started that outbreak and I haven't had anything close to that severe again. I guess I'm just looking for extra proof because to me theres a big different between having it on my face and down there... I think i would prefer to have it down there. Because no matter how rare it would for me to spread oral hsv2 I still have to disclose before every kiss now.
is it likely you are having so many issues from hsv2 in the facial area? you can but the odds of such are rather low. most folks who have hsv2 orally, aren't particularly bothered by it and it rarely reoccurs for the vast majority of folks who have it.
might want to have that tongue looked at. make sure you don't have a fungal infection going on or anything. hard to tell if these new symptoms are something going on or even just "trauma" from biting on tongue and lip while sleeping due to all the stress you are under.
Thank you for your time Grace.. I really appreciate it. I know, I can't help but be mad at my doctor, I might never know now. If this is OHSV2 I don't know how many outbreaks I will have or if I can tell. If I was more of a complainer I would ask for the cost of that visit to be waived.
My tongue is currently still kinda cultured and I had a 100 degree temp last night is now gone.. strange.. I have what almost looks like a dark rip/cut/hole on my tongue (but who knows if thats new, I don't remember it though) and I have another kinda cut or sore (but same color as my gum) on the inside of my gums under my lip. The strange thing is the cut on the gum is the same place I felt tingling on my chin/face... but I never got anything there.. just this ripped gum lining. I played with the blackheads/small bumps and they did have some yellow string that you would expect to be in blackheads. so I'm not sure about those.
I don't want to waste money on something thats already caused me so much stress. It's already been almost a week since I felt what I thought was predrome causing this. I feel like the swabs might be too late this time too. I will take your advice and try to get right to the doctor if I ever have the tongue and gums come out again. The redness on my penis went away within 12-24 hours once I stopped messing with it lol.. so I don't know...
The lost of appetite is the worse... I can hardly keep food down right now. I don't know it's an outbreak or depression.. Whatever it is I hope it goes away soon.
Thanks again grace!
at this point, all you can do is be seen any time you have any oral/facial symptoms for a swab within 48 hours of their appearance. I'd also be rather assertive about getting pcr swabbing done of your rash in the genital area should it reoccur too. I know this is time consuming and pricy but really no other options at this point.
grace