Is this a high herpes risk - help pregnant wife!

[TonyK123]

Hi, please help me, I went to a massage parlour 2 days ago and the lady worker licked and sucked my balls for around 5 minutes then gave me a handjob using massage oil. No condom was used. She also rubbed her breast against my penis.

I didn't see any sores but I didn't look hard. She offered full set but I declined so she's basically a prostitute.

My wife is pregnant with our first baby and I'm extremely worried I may have caught herpes or something and if I give it to her I read this is very bad for the baby.

As the lady licked my balls then massaged my unprotected penis is the risk great?  As her saliva was probably rubbed into my penis.

Is the risk great? What should I do? I have no symptoms but it's only been 2 days. I read testing won't work until week 6.

Please advice I feel sick.
Many thanks in advance.

[TonyK123]

What precautions should I take to minimise risk if I'm infected before I can be tested? No skin to skin contact, no touching?

Thanks again

[Life360_Dave]

Herpes 2 is a risk but very very low as is Syphilis but even the smallest lowness would require testing for your families protection. 8 weeks is a good indicator but 3 months would be conclusive.
Understand that this is not about you but about your family. If you were single i would suggest to go about your business and dont test at all.

[TonyK123]

Her lips did touch my testicles as she sucked them. But her lips didn't touch my penis.

Is herpes 2 a risk here? And when should I be tested.

Many thanks

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, herpes is not passed by what your describing and saliva contains enzimes that kill things. If this was oral sex, it would be suggested to have a herpes test but if this did not happen, really nothing to be concerned about.
If her lips made contact with your testicles then have a herpes and syphilis test for the families protection.