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Oral with a condom

Hiya,  I got a blowjob from a girl who put a condom on me the other day.  I've started to become worried about it now and have a tingling on my penis.  I'm not sure if it's normal but my paranoia is getting the best of me.  It's been 2 days since the girl and I think I have some tingling, but no signs of boils on my penis yet.  I do have a loss of appetite and can't sleep but I think it's down to the worry.  I'm going to try and see the doc and see what he thinks.  Thanks for any advice.

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101028 tn?1419603004
time to stop thinking std's! this was protected oral sex!!!

fungal infections causing itching and bumps as do bacterial skin infections. both of you should follow up on your symptoms but no reason for more std testing.
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Although my itching has eased, my legs do still itch and I have red bump spot showing on my upper thighs and bum checks.  My anus has been slightly itchy but that comes and goes.  My concern is that my partner is showing some itchy symptoms too and a spot on her upper thigh, a couple of red bump spots on her chin also.  I'm still concerned about my urethra opening which seems to have a red bump just  in the opening and some mild sharp pains down my urethra sometimes which also come and go.  What are your thoughts on what this could be bearing in mind that I think it could be contagious?  Paranoia maybe but should I get re-tested for everything?
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101028 tn?1419603004
you were never at risk for herpes from this encounter.

grace
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The results came back negative for HSV1 and 2.  They also came back negative on early detection test.  In your experience, how accurate are both of these?
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I know.  Paranoia perhaps!..  I read about it very soon after and now I have it in my head I'm quite worried and focussed on it.  Got the dual herpes blood test done, will have the results back in 48 hours.
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101028 tn?1419603004
sounds like folliculitis on your legs.

you won't get deported for herpes.

this was protected oral sex. why you are still thinking herpes from it is beyond me.

grace
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Hello.  The women at the hospital didn't examine me but thought I was being silly.  I gave a urine sample again anyway - I can check results on Tuesday.  I'm not sure if that was a red spot on the top of my penis.  

Anyway, since then I've had spots on my legs...(At this point I think it's important to add that previously frequently got spots on my legs and I've always had mini red spot areas above both knees)  I have a couple inside my legs, opposite legs, a few on the top of legs.  The difference with these spots is that they're itchy.  The are like white head spots, some aren't.  Bathing helps to sooth.  My penis doesn't appear to show any spots at the moment.  (fingers crossed).

The other thing is thought my lip was tingling on Friday and I bought some Zovirax as a preemptive strike.  Anyway, not sure about my lip yet.  Keeping my eye on it.

My worry is that I'm from the UK and in the US for the next week.  Worried that getting checked out here may end up in potentially being deported is something is wrong with me.  Do you reckon I'll probably have to wait until I get back.

If it was dreaded Herpes which is incurable.  How long would it take for those spots to clear?  I'm sure anxiety isn't helping and I'm sure my lack on sleep isn't either.  Any other symptoms I should check for?

What do you suggest?  I pray to god it's okay!
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101028 tn?1419603004
how did your appointment go?
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The urine tests came back clear.  They took another one just in case
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101028 tn?1419603004
seeing a medical provider again for your continued symptoms is the best thing to do.

grace
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Got my results today and my blood was clear of hep b, HIV etc and urine clear of Clamidia Gonorrhoea although not entirely clear to exactly what they tested and what was clear.

I have noticed an improvement but still have a frequent want to pee today although i've actually been able to go.   I've noticed that if I open the top on my penis I can see a red sore bit/spot - (no white head) on the urethra opening edge.  Doesn't feel painful when I touch it.  Seeing doc tomorrow.  What could a spot like that be?
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101028 tn?1419603004
It doesn't take anywhere near 2 weeks for results. the delay is them having a chance to look at them and talk to you about them.  If you call and they say results aren't back, you should go elsewhere and get basic urine testing and such done today.

grace
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I'm not sure how early I can get the results.  They said 2 weeks and I assume that was for the urine sample as well as the blood sample.  Th earliest I could contact the clinic will be Tuesday because of the Easter weekend.  

I have a feeling that I need to finish going to the toilet - weeing.  I'm sure I have had a similar feeling to this before now after i've had sex and it went away after a couple of days.  

It's really hard not to read about STI's and to not get worried.  However I guess a comparison could be someone reading about a headache and seeing one of the causes could be "Brain Tumour".

Do you have any suggestions what I should look out for and what I can do help it?
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101028 tn?1419603004
give the clinic a call today and ask what your urine test results were.

grace
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Today I still have tingling and a frequent want to go to the toilet.  My urethra feels sensitive. What do you suggest?
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1174003 tn?1308160819
I will give you my addy too and you can put money in my account too.  :-)
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101028 tn?1419603004
yes fungal infections can cause the build up ( or it can be smegma too ) and it can also cause itchy anal areas too.

you never needed any testing for any std's from this encounter!  don't keep wasting your time and your money. If you have that much to waste I can give you the addy of the college my son goes to and you can add some to his account :)

You had all your testing done way too early anyways. This is wasting your time and money X2.  

grace
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Thanks for the comment.  I have been to a clinic to get checked out.   They have taken some blood, urine samples and swab from my penis.  Most of the results I have to wait for 2 weeks for although the swabs showed I had a small amount of thrush.  A woman at the clinic gave me a pill for thrush.  

I've previously noticed a cheesy build up under my foreskin before any of this if I don't wash for day.  Also, last week I was wearing very tight fitting snowboarding impact shorts most of the days, could that be contributing factor?  Could thrush also give you a sore anus, like when you haven't wiped properly?  I'm also thinking of trying another clinic for same day STD results.
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101028 tn?1419603004
it was protected oral sex. this isn't a std risk.

grace
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