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herpes/breast/chaped lip

I know its stupid. I got a lap dance where the dancers breast made it into my mouth. I have a chaped bottum lip. Did I catch herpes?
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My guilt is TREMENDOUS …… It’s difficult not to worry. I’ve returned to this posting several times, for relief=why?
Not likely; not considered sex; I guess I misplayed the GUILT /RISK game. I am glad it’s not a worse case scenario, compared to what I’ve read hear my posting was probably pre-K or rated G. That’s probably another thing, I need to stop reading these other posts; way too much empathy, and I get caught up in it. It drives my anxiety levels into the stratosphere so high that I forget that all I have is a chapped lip(a relatively healing chapped lip, more like wind chafed from a dry windy climate)-dancer breast – in mouth encounter.  
and Grace I got to tell you beyond a clinical defintion, it sure felt like sex to me!
Damn that guilt!
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Thank's Grace.
I am in idiot!
I can not express how much gratitude I have for all of the responces.
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101028 tn?1419603004
sti's are sexually transmitted infections. a boob in the mouth isn't considered sex.

grace
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1174003 tn?1308160819
There is a common theme.  Its called Guilt vs Risk.  The risk of the encounter is virtually zero.  Why?  Herpes doesn't reside in the chest region typically.  If you had said you kissed her or something of that nature I still would have said low risk unless she had a sore present.  The guilt of the encounter makes you worry.  I speak from experince when I say that.  So in your case you let Guilt make the risk feel like its 99.99% possible you have herpes and our low risk gives that 0.01% more to make you feel you have it.  You don't and if you did you wouldn't have gotten it from the encounter with her breast.  
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Although I think it sounds paranoid, it seems to be a common thread. It’s nice to know that my stupid breast-in-mouth query received a response. I thought my catching herpes scenario was quite low, but guilt/anxiety can go a long, long way.
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thanks! I might be able to go to sleep now!
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1174003 tn?1308160819
From her breast.  No.  You have a chapped lip.  See your doctor for a proper look over to see if they feel you have herpes.  If you have herpes it isn't from this from this encounter.  
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