Gay male - I ended a relationship about a year ago and was tested via IGG 3 months after - negative for HSV2. I am HSV1 positive due to cold sores as a child.
2 weeks ago, my ex and I hung out. I noticed a red bump/rashed area in the upper part of his anal “crack”; he said it didn’t hurt but said it has been really dry there multiple times throughout his life (I remember this from our relationship). I may also add he is a strict top - so his anal area isn’t ever really touched or played with.
We engaged in oral sex (mouth to penis - no oral to anal) for a max of 10 mins (no sores on penis) and we did naked cuddle for 2 nights.
A few days later I noticed 1 bump on my pubic region (that may have come in contact w/ the sore when cuddling). This sounds crazy, but to get a better look, I “pull” my pubic hair up to see the skin more closely. I don’t shave, so I ruled out ingrown hairs. A day or so later, 2 or 3 more bumps appears in the same general area - 2 of these have a clear hair coming out of them and one I popped and had white puss. None have formed what I would say are a blister and they aren’t touching eachother or clustered. I’m considering the new bumps appears from irritation of me pulling the hairs and skin too much while inspecting. No other symptoms.
If what he has was HSV2, what are my chances I caught this from my exposure? It’s too late to get a swab but may wait 3 months for another blood test.