I removed your other post since it's easier to keep it all in this one. we ask this in our read before posting post on the forum.
http://www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_learn_oralherpes.cfm has terrific info on hsv1 orally. Your oral herpes would be what your daughter would be at risk of contracting though at her age now, it's not really a risk for her. social pecks do not transmit the virus once you get to be about school age.
unless you have a lesion culture of active symptoms, no way to know if your hsv1 is also genital. Genital hsv1 infections are pretty "classic" in their appearance - multiple blisters, very painful and pretty obvious. you know your hsv1 is oral. No way to know if you also have it genitally unless you get a return of symptoms and get them cultured.
to add to your previous concerns in your other post - if you do have hsv1 genitally too, your daughter is not at risk for it. No one should ever share toothbrushes, razors, body puffs, towels or washcloths - not because herpes is easily transmitted through sharing them but because other very common germs are easily transmitted through sharing them. genital herpes is a sexually transmitted disease and your daughter isn't at risk for it since we don't have that sort of contact with our children.
grace