I have Gential Herpes(I got it from a married man who was with 3 other women & his wife unknowingly to me until it was too late) and it rarely acts up except maybe now but I also have lupus too and the symptons I'm having could be either which is stressful. I have a bump on my buttocks it does not itch, it's not red but it is painful when I sit down but the difference right now is the pain is going down my whole left leg to the bottom of my foot in the back of my leg which I did have a possible blood clot in when my Lupus first went out of remmission but with my herpes all I've had is the burning,itching and swollen glands which also happens with my Lupus when it's flared up. PLEASE HELP ME.