Sorry, this got overlooked and I'm not sure how.
Now, for the answer. You have NO risk for herpes in this encounter. You need a lot more genital to genital contact to transmit herpes. The upper leg is not a risk for viral shedding.
If you have other questions, please let me know!
Terri
Could a dr please answer this
How do you get a dr to answer
You prob have it if she, does. Get, a, test