Thank you Grace, I appreciate it. I was confused.
well if you were both tested prior to his affair and were both negative and now you both have it, it does sound like it came from the partner in question.
keep asking questions :)
Yes we use to get tested together. I only ended up going a month ahead of him because it was my annual.
was your partner ever tested for herpes before this?
It's HS2 I've actually broken out a few times.
yes indeed genital herpes can transmit fro females to males. whoever told you that it can't, should be reported to their clinic manager as needing further education on genital herpes!
what testing did your partner have done? does he have hsv1 or hsv2?
what testing have you had done?
grace