the herpes igm is a greatly flawed test and your provider actually should've never drawn it on you. encourage your provider to read the 2010 cdc herpes guidelines to update their herpes testing information.
is it likely you have herpes? no it is not. Definitely cover your bases though and repeat your testing, along with any other std testing you need done at the 3 month mark.
has your spouse had other partners? Have they had full std testing too?
grace
Still, assume nothing. If your husband has never been tested to know his herpes status, now is the time to be certain, so you both know statuses. Also, assuming your boyfriend truly has herpes, realize that people can go months, even years, without transmitting herpes to their partner. So don't be too surprised that you're most likely negative :-)
Thanks, that's what I thought, so I'm feeling a little better. See the problem is that it's the boyfriend (since the husband and I separated) that is claiming to have exposed me, and now my husband and I are talking about getting back together. If I do have Herpes, then I'd be obligated to tell him that I've picked it up since we've been separated. I definitely don't want to do that unless it truly is positive and I would be exposing him.
Looking forward to Grace's thoughts.
To both of you - it's very gracious of you to spend your free time counseling people like me :-).
Grace can help you fully interperet your test results, but it does appear based on your IgG that in fact you are negative. It is recommended however that the test is done 3 months after any possible transmission encounter, so you may want to retake it at that point. However, being negative at 10 weeks most likely means it will be negative at your 3 month mark - most would show positive by 10 weeks if in fact they were. Obviously it would make sense that your husband would need to be tested to know his status as well.