Hi Terri,
You provided me some much needed reassurance regarding my infant daughter about a month and a half ago, and I hope you are able to do so again. I hope this scenario is not ridiculous to you (or rather, I hope that it is and that I am worried for nothing!), but really dwelling on it and hoping to put it out of my mind. My daughter is just shy of 3 months (11 weeks old). I have been dealing with cold sores, one right after the other, since her birth. It is beyond frustrating and I have an appointment to get on suppressive therapy at this point. Last night, she woke up in the middle of the night. Half awake, I absent-mindedly scratched/rubbed the area above my upper lip (I have a healed sore there, and am feeling yet another one coming on). I immediately realized what I did and grabbed a bottle of hand sanitizer to use before changing her diaper, using the same hand that touched my lip. In my haste, however, I dropped the bottle and it landed on her inner thigh, where her diaper meets her leg. I grabbed a wipe and wiped the area a bit, but I am not sure I got the right area (the room was very dark) or if the wiping made the situation worse by rubbing in any virus that may have gotten on her. Plus, my daughter kicks a ton during changes, so her inner thigh likely rubbed quite a bit against her vaginal area, so the potential for viral transfer/friction through that is scaring me too. Could I have given her HSV1 genitally from this? Is that at all a possibility from what I have described? I know that inanimate objects do not generally transmit, but I am worried due to the fact my contaminated hand touched the bottle and it fell on her instantly…plus the introduction of friction from my wiping and her kicking. Also, she is so little and I know it is much easier for babies/kids to catch. Is this situation at all a risk, or can I put it out of my mind? Also, do you think it is likely she is still protected by my antibodies at this age? Thank you for your help!