My fiancee is herpes free and has been recently tested. My father developed shingles last month and I was tending to him and had direct contact with the sores before we knew what it was. I had my first outbreak of herpes last week and it was BAD. Here's the kicker, the last time I had sex with anyone other than my fiancee (who i've been with for 2 years) was over 12 years ago. Is it possible for the virus to lay dormant for this long or what the hell is going on?